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FACT SHEET #10 B.C. COALITION TO ELIMINATE ABUSE OF SENIORS FACT SHEET #10

VIOLATION OF CIVIL/HUMAN RIGHTS

Violation of rights is the negation or disregard for the human rights of an individual. For example - withholding of information, denial of privacy, denial of visitors, restriction of liberty or mail censorship.

Unless the senior has agreed or is certifiably confused, no one has the right to deny the human rights of another person. When one is denied their human rights it definitely affects their self-esteem and confidence, and demoralization sets in.

SCENARIO #1
When her husband died, Martha went to live with her son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren. Martha has become very unhappy because they are opening her mail, telling her friends she is asleep when they call or phone, and refuse to let her go to the church she has attended for over 40 years. She feels like a prisoner in their home and is becoming very depressed and wishes she had not given up her own residence.

SCENARIO #2
Joe had recently sold his house, bought a condo, and given his son Power of Attorney. Joe went on a holiday to visit his brother in another province. While there he received a call from his son telling him not to bother coming home as he had sold the condo, his furniture and car. Joe’s son told him to stay with his brother as he was a nuisance to him.

SCENARIO #3
Mario and Filomina are both in their 90's. Their grandson had recently lost his job and they invited him, his wife and family to stay with them. Mario and Filomina moved into the basement suite to accommodate the family in the larger space upstairs. After a few months the grandson persuaded his grandparents to put the house in his name with the understanding that he would take care of them until their deaths. Once they had signed the house over to the grandson he and his wife became increasingly abusive to them. He destroyed their mail, disconnected their phone, did not allow their friends to visit and never took them anywhere. He totally controlled their lives making Mario and Filomina very fearful of their future and their health began to deteriorate.

 

CONTINUUM OF VIOLATION OF CIVIL/HUMAN RIGHTS

  • Disregard for the rights of a senior
  • Opening of personal mail
  • Making decisions for a senior without consulting with him/her
  • Not allowing friends to visit/discouraging friendships
  • Not allowing phone calls from friends
  • Not allowing senior to attend their place of worship
  • Seniors not permitted to make decisions about their life
  • Not allowing senior to come and go as he/she pleases
  • Withholding support needed to exercise these rights

 

FACT SHEET #9 B.C. COALITION TO ELIMINATE ABUSE OF SENIORS FACT SHEET #9
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