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Communities Betrayed
Multiple
Victim Child Sexual Abuse
in Rural Communities

Andrea
M. Kowaz
Carolyn
A. Wright

British
Columbia Institute on Family Violence
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Communities
Betrayed
Multiple
Victim Child Sexual Abuse
in Rural Communities
Andrea
M. Kowaz
Carolyn
A. Wright

British
Columbia Institute on Family Violence
Acknowledgments
A number
of people made important contributions without which this
book could not have been written. Dr. Derek Eaves, Dr. Ron
Roesch and Dr. Steven Golding had major input in terms of
initial project planning and implementation and in obtaining
access to the sample community. Funding for the original research
project was provided through the generosity of the Forensic
Psychiatric Services Commission and the Ministry of Social
Services. Ms. Dolores Escudero was a major contributor to
both data collection and conceptualization, especially with
regard to the impact of the abuse on the family. Ms. Jill
Hightower contributed significantly both to the data collection
phase of the research project, and later as Executive Director
of the B.C. Institute on Family Violence, which supported
and facilitated the completion of this book. Ms. Faye Grant
at the Forensic Psychiatric Services Commission was generous
with her time, knowledge and resources. Dr. George Tien contributed
with both his time and his statistical expertise. We would
also like to thank the schools, teachers, parents and children
in the community involved for their participation and cooperation.
The orginal report is available at the B.C. Institute on Family
Violence.
Contents
Introduction
Current
literature
Our sample
community
Data collection
- Phase
I
- Phase
II
- Phase
III
Profiles
- A community
profile
- Profile
of the victims and their families
- Profile
of an abuser
The nature
of the abuse
Disclosure
- Community
response 33
- Short
and long term effects on the children
- Short
and long term effects on the families
- Short
and long term effects on the community
Service
response and evaluation of services
Conclusions
and recommendations
Endnotes
References
About
the authors
Andrea
M. Kowaz, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist in Vancouver,
B.C. In addition to private practice she does consultation
and research with the B.C. Institute on Family Violence, and
is an adjunct professor of clinical psychology at Simon Fraser
University. Her previous publications are largely in the area
of childrens psychosocial development.
Carolyn
A. Wright is a contract writer/editor with the B.C. Institute
on Family Violence. She has an M.A. in Political Science from
York University.
Introduction
To many
city-dwellers, small towns are thought of as idyllic escapes
from the rat race of the city and the high pressures of urban
life. There is no rush hour in a small town, you know and
trust your neighbours, people can leave their doors unlocked,
they help each other out, and children can roam around with
the freedom that most of us remember having when we were young.
On closer
inspection, the idyll of a small town is sometimes no more
than a thin veneer barely concealing the tragedies that go
on, unnoticed for long periods of time. This project represents
an unveiling; an exposure of the catastrophes that many small
towns in British Columbia have faced. Reports of multiple
victim child sexual abuse (MVCSA) are emerging as an all too
frequent reality in both rural and urban B.C. The impetus
for this undertaking comes from a realization that there is
scarce formal literature in the area of multiple victim child
sexual abuse, and in particular for rural areas.
The issue
of child sexual abuse has been hot in the media ever since
the first disclosure of sexual abuse at the Mount Cashel orphanage
in St. John's, Newfoundland rang across the country over ten
years ago. Unfortunately, however, not a lot has been done
to examine the effects of this type of abuse on not only the
victims and their families, but on the community as a whole.
The perpetrator tends to be a trusted, well-liked, and well
respected figure in the community. Disclosures of abuse throw
community relations and dynamics into upheaval wrought with
confusion and betrayal. This book seeks to fill this gap,
and in so doing hopes to provide some guidance to service
providers who may find themselves faced with such a catastrophe.
On a more hopeful note, we have attempted to establish some
guidelines and procedures which are designed to prevent such
occurrences in small communities.
What follows
is a discussion of the various levels of effect of multiple
victim child sexual abuse on a rural community, drawing on
the in-depth experiences of the authors and other researchers
with one small B.C. community which weathered such a crisis.
Our 'sample' community is at the same time a specific place
and everyplace, because although certain events happened in
one particular community, there is ample evidence to suggest
both the potential and reality of similar occurrences manifesting
in any small town in Canada. Using the information gathered
during a series of intensive interviews in the community,
in combination with the current available literature pertaining
to MVCSA, we have drawn composite profiles of the victims,
the perpetrators and the communities confronting cases of
MVCSA.
This project
is unique in the way it acknowledges the futility of drawing
clear distinctions between the effects of the abuse on direct
and indirect victims, and in its recognition of the far reaching
ramifications for the community as a whole as it struggles
with feelings of betrayal, stigmatization, elevated suspicion
and potential social collapse. In this regard, we are greatly
indebted to the sample community for sharing their story with
us, amidst the ongoing healing process for all involved.
Current
Literature
Research
on the prevalence and impact of child sexual abuse has multiplied
during the last decade. Recent studies1 show that
27% of women and 16% of men report a history of childhood
sexual abuse. Because most of the abuse is perpetrated by
a relative, much of the research to date has focused on familial
abuse. In contrast, little has been published about the effects
of sexual abuse by a non- relative, especially when multiple
victims are involved. Abuse by a trusted non-family member
is believed to produce comparable effects on individual victims
as abuse by a relative2. Similar to our findings
in the sample community, the literature points to the fact
that multiple abuse occurrences in smaller communities impacts
not only the direct victims, but also children not directly
affected as well as the community as a whole.3
The higher
rate of female child sexual abuse has lead many studies to
focus exclusively on girls, leaving boy victims underrepresented
in the empirical literature. Gender-specific studies produced
results consistent with non-gendered studies on the impact
of childhood sexual abuse4. One exception is the
higher rate of self-destructiveness and suicidal tendencies
for abused boys.5
The available
literature on the effects of child sexual abuse has consistently
identified a series of symptoms associated with the experience:
- negative
impact on self concept,6
- increased
fearfulness and anxiety,7
- sexualized
behaviour (i.e. inappropriate to age or circumstance and
sexual acting out),8
- behavioural
and school problems,9
- somatic
and sleep disturbances.10
It will
emerge from the victim profiles that these symptoms are characteristic,
but not necessarily present for all victims of child sexual
abuse.
Findings
about the impact of child sexual abuse suggest that many of
the short term effects reported have also been cited as characteristic
of general child clinical samples.11 Significant
problems exist therefore, in terms of identifying unique symptoms
and then attributing them to sexual abuse per se. Sexualized
behaviour may be the one exception as a more specific symptom
of childhood sexual abuse.12 Passivity has been
identified as characterizing the free play of sexually abused
children, but less so than for physically abused children.13
For school age children both behavioral and academic problems
have been reported14, but these findings are somewhat
equivocal due to a lack of clinical control groups. Low self-esteem,
suicidal ideation and acting out have been reported for teenage
victims of childhood sexual abuse15, but again,
these symptoms have also been shown for general clinical samples
for this age group.
The literature
shows that when children answer questions about themselves,
the findings are more equivocal than when parents or teachers
respond on their behalf.16 In fact, parents of
sexually abused children consistently consider their children
as more pathological than the children consider themselves.17
As such, it is unclear whether sexually abused school age
children are more or less disturbed than non-abused children.
Some studies have shown that sexually abused children score
somewhere in between non-abused children and other clinical
groups on a general scale of disturbance.18 In
addition, disadvantaged or disturbed families have problems
which are not specific to sexual abuse. As a result, a direct
relationship between sexual abuse and other behavioural and
emotional manifestations can not be claimed.
A few
studies have focused on the effect that extra-familial sexual
abuse has on the parents of child victims. Findings showed
that guilt, anger, anxiety, stress, powerlessness, stigmatization
and betrayal characterize the feelings of the parents of the
victims of Multiple Victim Child Sexual Abuse.19
Furthermore, Glancy and Regehr (1991) descriptively studied
the impact of multiple abuse on a very small isolated community
and found that symptoms of betrayal, powerlessness, and stigmatization
generalized to the whole community, an effect which we also
noted during the gathering of information from the sample
community for this project.
Our
sample community
The findings
contained in this work are a reflection of an intensive series
of investigations designed to understand the impact of non-familial
MVCSA in a small rural community at a variety of levels. We
considered impact on the child victims of sexual abuse, the
families of victims, the families of other children in the
community, and the functioning of the community at large.
The community services available at the time of the disclosures
were evaluated by both parents and professionals, and recommendations
were made to improve both service response in the event of
another crisis of this magnitude and the provision of ongoing,
regular services. Various groups and segments of one particular
rural community were involved in our study. We have incorporated
our results with those of other relevant studies and bodies
of literature to come up with a sample community
representing a particular place and everyplace.
The community
as a whole was outraged that the abuse was allowed to happen.
There was a significant amount of media coverage of the event,
and people in the town were sensitive to the feelings of stigmatization
which resulted. Continuous consultation was maintained with
community members throughout the course of this study so as
to heed their concerns. The focus was on the entire community
due to the magnitude of the abuse, the high profile of the
offender both before and after disclosures, the difficulty
in differentiating between direct victims and victims of more
subtle forms of abuse, and the observed and reported impact
on community members with varying levels of contact with the
abuser. Previous research findings on community impact were
also considered.20
All children
in the community were considered to be affected by the abuse.
The unique aspect of this project is in the recognition of
the difficulty in drawing a clear line between victims and
non-victims in occurrences of MVCSA in a small rural community.
Not only are all children affected by the atmosphere of secrecy
and abuse prior to the disclosures, but the entire community
suffers from feelings of betrayal, stigmatization and confusion
following the disclosures.
The size
and location of small rural communities does not allow for
the kind of anonymous buffer provided by large urban centres
that helps families and victims cope privately with the effects
of multiple victim, non-familial child sexual abuse. The entire
community suffers the effects of the abuse and can feel stigmatized
by the negative attention paid to these types of issues in
the media. There remain long-standing effects of such rampant
abuse and betrayal, leaving a legacy of mistrust, anger, anxiety
and a possibility of prolonged problems with sexual abuse.
Parents are faced with feelings of betrayal and inadequacy
in protecting their children from such heinous offenses. It
may be useful to view the healing process of a small community
through the lens of a general Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
- a reaction to a trauma which can have long-ranging effects
which are difficult to overcome. It can be a long time before
many parents of the victims, let alone the victims themselves
of MVCSA will be capable of trusting again.
"It
will be a long time before we trust anybody like that again."
Parent of victim
Data
collection
We expected
direct and indirect victims to show more problems when compared
with children in other communities on a series of self-esteem,
personality and behavioural measures. Since the majority of
the direct victims were male, it was expected that boys would
exhibit more problems than girls. Although the test results
were expected to be more pronounced for the direct victims
compared with the indirect victims, all children in the affected
community were considered as impacted because the abuse occurred
on such a large scale, affecting children in a variety of
settings including school and extra-curricular activities.
The whole school atmosphere was abnormally sexualized resulting
in conflicts among the children over differential treatment
by the abuser.
Phase
I
The first
phase of the study conducted in the sample community asked
one hundred and fifty children from the elementary and high
schools to complete questionnaires designed to measure self-esteem
and self-concept, fears, powerlessness (locus of control),
overt behavioural problems, and somatic symptoms. The participants
were classified in a confidential manner according to their
victim status indicated in victim records. Due to the time
lapse between disclosures and the inception of our project,
over 50% of the children who had made disclosures had moved
away from the sample community and were thus not available
to participate. Almost all of the remaining victims participated
in the data collection. Due to the interaction between the
children from the two elementary schools in the sample community
during extra-curricular activities, and some transfers from
one school to the other subsequent to the disclosures, we
were unable to draw clear distinctions between "affected"
and "not-affected" schools.
Phase
II
In the
second phase of the project, 30 participating families representing
a total of 36 children answered a series of questions pertaining
to social and psychological functioning. The interviews were
divided into three phases. The first phase looked at variables
which are considered in the literature as likely moderators
or mediators of the impact of abuse, including: socio-economic
and educational status, family history, present family characteristics,
and the relationship between the parents and the abuser prior
to disclosure. Second, we looked at the short and long term
effects of the abuse on the parents, the type and intensity
of the abuse experienced by the children and the short and
log term effects of the abuse on the children. Third, the
parents were asked to evaluate the services available in the
community at the time of the disclosures and immediately following.
For the
purposes of evaluating the results, the families were divided
into three groups according to the victim status of their
children. Group 1 consisted of families with at least one
child who was a direct victim of sexual abuse, ranging from
frequent abuse to isolated incidents. Group 2 consisted of
families with at least one child whose abuse was strongly
suspected due to their reactions at disclosure, their proximity
to the abuser, and their friendship with other abused children.
Group 3 consisted of families with children for whom abuse
was not suspected due to their distance from the events and
the directly affected children.
Phase
III
The third
phase of the study looked at community impact. Interviews
were conducted to ascertain the effect of the abuse on community
functioning and dynamics. This portion of the data collection
was designed to help put together recommendations and guidelines
which could be helpful to other communities facing this type
of crisis.
Profiles
Before
examining the findings of the study it is first important
to understand the dynamics of multiple victim child sexual
abuse. Where do these events occur, who perpetrates these
types of offenses, and who are the victims? Three profiles
will be drawn. The first profile will be that of the community.
What are the socio-economic factors unique to rural communities,
what are the special concerns vis-à-vis the hiring of professionals
and what are the limits to resources available. The second
profile will be that of the victims of MVCSA. Is there a target
group? What role does family history play? How do the children
react to the abuse? The third profile will look at the abuser.
Who is the perpetrator, what does he or she do in the community,
how are their victims chosen, and how is compliance maintained
for so long?
All of
these profiles are amalgamations of the people involved in
the case study and of more general information that has been
gathered concerning occurrences of MVCSA. We have done this
for two reasons: first, to protect the privacy of the sample
community; and second, to offer a broader understanding of
the dynamics of MVCSA so as to provide a useful tool to any
community who may be facing such circumstances.
A
Community Profile
The sample
community could be one of many small towns in rural B.C.,
with a population of around two thousand people, fluctuating
with the ebb and flow of the economic tide. Initially a boom
town with all the promises of wealth and happiness, the town
now sits in a bleak landscape surrounded by once plentiful
rich natural resources, now almost completely run dry. This
is the fate of many small B.C. communities which arose out
of the belief that the rich natural resources in "Super
Natural B.C." were limitless.
The unemployment
rate in the town is high, hovering between ten and fifteen
percent. Mining provides for 33 percent of the jobs, followed
by services at twenty-six percent. Between 1981 and 1988 the
town experienced a twenty percent decrease in population precipitated
by job loss and some fallout from the disclosures of sexual
abuse. Due to the remoteness of the town and the size of the
community, it is served by one social services office which
takes care of thirteen small communities in the region. Stretched
to its limits, the social service office attempts to provide
at least the basics of services, mostly for substance abuse
and family dysfunction. There is no long term counselling
available.
As could
be expected, when the disclosures began, this office was ill-equipped
to deal with the volume of services needed in addition to
its regular caseload. The shortage of services available in
small isolated communities makes the possibility of problems
such as MVCSA more probable. The means are not available to
provide preventative education or proper monitoring of problems
when they arise. An unfortunate byproduct of these shortfalls
is that the targeted children tended to come from dysfunctional
families, struggling alone with issues which really needed
professional intervention.
Studies
of MVCSA have found that disclosure and investigation were
more likely to occur in small communities. The irony of this
is the limit on resources available in smaller communities
to deal with the fallout from disclosures. The broad impact
that disclosures of this type can have on a community demand
more comprehensive services and education. It is even probable
that with more preventative education, children would be more
aware of the difference between appropriate and inappropriate
behaviours from adults. This, in turn, would hopefully result
in fewer occurrences of multiple victim child sexual abuse.
More questions might also be asked of professionals looking
to relocate to small isolated communities.
Profile
of the victims and their families
The victims
of pedophiles are often carefully chosen for their vulnerability
and for the likelihood that they will keep quiet about the
abuse. Offenders use varying combinations of coercion, deception,
bribes, threats, punishments and intimidation to control and
manipulate the children. The children on their part make efforts
to cope with the abuse through various means such as:
- not
participating in sports teams,
- dropping
out of extra-curricular activities at school,
- refusing
to participate in activities such as scouts,
- refusing
to go to the doctor or to school,
- poor
performance,
- deliberately
avoiding any contact with the abuser.
In the
sample community, a small group of children tried to support
each other by grouping together every time the abuser called
on one of them. The power and control that the abuser wields
is evident in the jealousy felt by some children of the special
attention paid to certain favourites of the abuser, even when
they were aware of the nature of the attention. Other children
notice the attention and feel glad to be free of it.
In a 1991
study of the occurrence of MVCSA in B.C.,21 a general
profile of "the preferred victim" was drawn up.
The study included data collected from thirty reports of MVCSA
in twenty-one communities. The major findings include distribution
across gender, age and family history.
In 50%
of occurrences, the majority of victims were boys. In 30%
of occurrences the majority of victims were found to be girls
and in the remaining 20% of occurrences there was an even
distribution between both genders. Interestingly this runs
counter to the statistics for intra-familial and incest abuse
where girls are overwhelmingly the victims.22 Furthermore,
the long term impact of sexual abuse differs across gender.
Given current socialization of boys and girls, male victims
of sexual abuse are more likely to become perpetual abusers,
while female victims are more likely to become perpetual victims.
Boys are socialized to be in charge and to "be real men".
Sexual abuse challenges their masculinity, thereby confusing
male victims. Some boys think they must be homosexual because
they attracted the attentions of a male. In an effort to regain
their control and therefore their masculinity, they may resort
to a variety of aberrant sexual behaviours, including becoming
abusers themselves. The importance of recognizing the possible
effects and treating the victims accordingly becomes all the
more pressing when consideration is given to the potential
for a perpetual cycle of abuse.
In 57%
of occurrences, the victims were under the age of 12, while
only 13% of occurrences showed the victims to be older than
12 years of age. In the sample community for this project,
the perpetrator's preferred age group was between the ages
of 9 and 15, but if he had no access to these younger children,
he would abuse older children in their stead. He showed a
strong preference for boys, but he also abused girls when
the opportunity arose.
Some parents
had a social relationship with the offender prior to the abuse.
Some considered him a good friend, while others were just
friendly on occasional contact. The families of direct victims
of the abuse all had some significant contact with the abuser
prior to and during the abuse. A number of parents remember
feeling uncomfortable with the offender before the disclosures
as a result of conflicts with him, such as over the abuser's
open opposition to the introduction of a sexual abuse prevention
program into the school. Several parents had also objected
to the sexual quality of school dance performances choreographed
by the abuser which had the children wearing scant clothing
and acting in very suggestive ways. In retrospect, many parents
felt they had tragically misinterpreted suspicious circumstances
observed during the abuse period. One parent recalls seeing
the offender carrying a kicking and screaming pupil while
saying "you know you will like it." At the time,
the parent assumed that the child was simply being uncooperative.
These finding suggest that parents were ill-equipped and ill-prepared
to recognize the signs and symptoms of possible abuse, and
as such, were unable to act on their suspicions.
Family
life and history contributes significantly to the chances
of a child being victimized. The 1991 B.C. study showed that
approximately one third of the victims were members of stable
intact families with no known history of sexual abuse. The
children were socially popular and performing well or excelling
in school. The remaining two thirds of the children came from
families where significant stresses were experienced prior
to the sexual abuse. These children came from families with
previous histories of family violence, including sexual and
physical abuse, drug abuse, and alcohol abuse.
Ideally,
if the challenges facing many families had been addressed
earlier by social service providers, many of these children
may not have been so vulnerable to the abuser. Sas and Cunningham
(1995) postulate that children from dysfunctional families
are at a higher risk of abuse because of "insufficient
supervision, boundary problems and the like." Furthermore,
they found an overlap between sexual abuse and physical violence
within the home, which appeared to suggest that child victims
of familial violence might be at a greater risk for sexual
abuse. Dysfunctional families have many problems which disallow
any broad conclusions to be drawn on the specific effects
of child sexual abuse. The Gove Report (1995) concluded that
children from poor families in particular are more likely
to suffer from psychiatric disorders, to drop out of school,
to have a low birth weight, to suffer chronic health problems
and to require protective services. "Poverty is a child
welfare issue and when governments allow children to live
in poverty, they are, in effect, committing systemic child
neglect."23
The data
from the sample community showed family dysfunction in the
lives of the affected children, including physical and sexual
abuse of one or both parents as children, marital problems,
wife battering, and perpetration of sexual abuse by the father.
A history of divorce was not uncommon, especially for the
parents of direct victims. Over half involved lengthy and
stressful court battles, but the others were relatively uneventful.
By the time the abuse took place most divorced parents had
been re-married. Parents experienced other stressful events
external to the abuse such as the death of a parent, serious
illness in the family, a house fire, or a recent move. These
families were left vulnerable enough by internal and external
circumstances which allowed the abuser to identify the children
as easy, vulnerable targets.24
The children
from these families had previous significant adjustment problems
such as behaviour disorders, learning disabilities, physical
disabilities, a significant medical problem, and a handful
of other special needs. The perpetrator was able to identify
the particular vulnerabilities of these children and then
successfully exploit them to his advantage. He would make
promises of support and recognition, in addition to material
compensation for their "favours." These children
were susceptible to such offerings because they did not have
other forms of support from peers and family members.
The perpetrator
did not limit himself to preying on vulnerable children. He
was also drawn to children with high physical ability, a quality
which he shared with his victims. He was able to access these
children through coaching sporting events, using his dedication
to providing unique and intensive opportunities as a smoke
screen for his abusive activities. The perpetrator was an
opportunist, taking advantage of children where and when he
could, using different forms of manipulation, geared towards
fulfilling the needs of the children as he saw them.
Many studies
have looked at vulnerability factors that may place children
at risk for being abused25. Often the factors mentioned
have been related to different kinds of family variables such
as family dysfunction, previous abuse in the family, etc.
(see also BC Ministry of Health, 1991). Our results are consistent
with these findings: The abused group had more dysfunctional
families, more divorces, more parents who had been previously
sexually abused, and more children with individual vulnerability
factors such as mental retardation or medical problems. These
factors may have produced vulnerability to extra-familial
abuse through a history resulting in low self-esteem, emotional
neediness, and low coping skills in the children. From another
perspective it appears that the abuser had some skill in the
selection of likely victims.
He
picked his victims with cunning. He found their most vulnerable
spot and exploited it. He went after the adopted kid, the
foster kid, the youngest in the class...he had the uncanny
ability to sense the weak link. He made sure they felt he
was on their side.
Vancouver Sun
Profile
of an Abuser
Small
towns are faced with a difficult task when trying to attract
professionals away from the glamour and pay of the big cities.
The allure of a quaint town in a rural setting is minimal
and often dismissed as too intimate and too isolated. How
then does a rural community, badly in need of the services
of professionals, set about to attract the attentions of valuable
and committed people, be they teachers, doctors, social workers
or lawyers? Faced with such challenges, rural communities
may not have the luxury of either a comprehensive screening
process or a multitude of qualified applicants. Those who
are willing to establish themselves in the community and set
up a professional practice or fill a much needed void in services
are greeted with a sigh of relief and often with open arms.
Reference checks done quickly expedite the process and facilitate
the settlement of the new professional. The information provided
in the references may be tainted by the desire of one community
to be relieved of a "problem" teacher or other professional.
Key information may be withheld or considered non-essential,
resulting in devastation for the new community.
New professional
arrivals can build up trust and respect in the community quite
quickly because they are often seen as dedicated to the job
at hand rather than looking for fame and fortune in the "big
city." If an abuser is not a stranger in town he26
is likely to already be a respected and trusted figure who
has a proven track record of caring about the welfare of the
children and offering them extra-special attention and services.
Anyone who fills this type of role in a community where resources
tend to be scarce, will quickly have the full strength of
town support behind him. He will have pre-established relationships
with children through various community and professional venues.27
He may even use his position of trust in the community as
well as his access to personal information and records of
children to better identify individuals who would make the
best targets for manipulation and abuse.
[He]
appears to have a genuine fondness for children, seeking out
their company over that of adults whenever he had a chance.
Vancouver Sun
A "typical"
pedophile28 has an uncanny ability to elicit trust
and establish intense relationships over a short period of
time. People are very attracted to this type of personality
and can feel very protective of the perpetrator, even to the
extent of denying allegations when they first emerge. Testifying
in a child sexual abuse case during the mid-eighties, psychiatrist
Dr. John Bradford cited research indicating that a middle
aged pedophile has an average of seventy-five victims before
being caught. Furthermore, a thorough look at the past of
almost anyone arrested for child molesting will unearth previous
unreported offenses. The offending individual practices a
general denial of the damaging effects of the abusive behaviour
and a distortion of the reality surrounding the abuse.29
According to one child-care worker, a classic pedophile
might have the following personality profile: "Married,
two kids, ingratiating himself to parents, really cares about
kids, puts himself out for others all the time, pillar of
the community, churchgoer, active in community affairs."
This profile accurately describes the abuser in the sample
community.
In one
particularly publicized case there were efforts to declare
an abuser as a dangerous offender and a psychopath. Of sixteen
characteristics that are used to identify a psychopath ranging
from a "lack of remorse or shame," to "specific
loss of insight," "untruthfulness and insincerity,"
and "superficial charm and good intelligence," this
offender was considered to score one hundred percent. It was
asserted that he had a personality disorder which made it
virtually impossible for him to experience normal feelings
of guilt or anxiety - or to tell the difference between right
and wrong.
His
first sexual encounters were with younger children when he
was about 12. It was these experiences that became the central
imagery for the sexual fantasies that haunted [him] through
adolescence and adulthood, fixating him sexually at the level
of a thirteen year old. Vancouver Sun
The newspaper
account of the case showed this offender as a classic example
of someone who lived the "Peter Pan syndrome," wherein
sexuality is fixed at a certain age level and the individual
just does not grow up. During the court case, a psychiatrist
in forensic psychology, specializing in the evaluation of
sexual offenders and pedophiles, described the phenomenon.
Young children lack a sense of right and wrong, living in
a state that has been described as "moral realism"
in which they take their cues for how to behave from the reactions
of those around them. At about age eight, children begin to
develop a sense of time, allowing them to experience guilt
over the past and anxiety over the future. This new state
is described as "moral autonomy" meaning they can
make moral judgments on their own. Psychopaths represent the
three or four percent of people who fail to adequately develop
that moral sense. Psychopaths have a firm grip on reality
and are often highly intelligent, yet have no self-esteem
requiring them to seek constant approval from others
and have no ability to discern that their actions may
be harmful.
When
introducing himself at the beginning of the year he would
commonly say to his students, "...if you think or feel
like saying No to me, you say Yes." Vancouver Sun
The argument
was made that the abuser in the sample community could not
see that what he was doing was wrong. According to the media
reports, his psychiatrist testified that the offender took
the attitude that "there's no harm done, he's doing them
(the children he molests) good." Although he denied that
there was anything wrong with his behaviour, the offender
did fear getting caught and had concocted an escape plan if
he ever did. Despite several close calls with being caught
as a child molester, the offender in the case study persisted
with highly inappropriate activities. He consistently put
himself in close contact with young children, despite acknowledging
that he would likely molest again. In a typical fashion, this
pedophile maneuvered himself into positions of potential intimacy
with children so as to keep available his options for sexual
contact.
The
nature of the abuse
A study
of sexual abuses perpetrated against child victims reveals
two broad patterns of behaviour.30 The first
pattern involves no actual physical contact between abuser
and victim, but does encompass:
- acts
of indecent exposure,
- coaxing
the child to undress,
- showing
children pornographic materials,
- verbal
pressure and manipulation used to gain compliance and control.
The last
item seems to eventually lead to the second pattern
of abuse which involves physical contact between the abuser
and his or her victim(s).
Abusive
physical contact is characterized by physical pressure or
actual invasion of the child's body. This pattern runs the
spectrum from what could be considered "accidental"
touching and fondling to full-out sexual assault. A short
list would include:
- application
of pressure on the child's body through fondling, rubbing
and stroking to the genital and other areas of the body;
- mutual
masturbation;
- kissing
on the mouth;
- oral-genital
contact;
- vaginal
or anal penetration of the victims with a penis, finger
or other object.
Records
examined subsequent to the disclosures of abuse in the sample
community revealed that the perpetrator had a long history
of abuse in other school districts before moving to the sample
community. He lived in the community for two years during
which time he established himself as a trusted and respected
figure. His good standing was shattered by one female victim's
disclosure of sexual abuse. During the two days following
this initial disclosure, other children were questioned, and
a large number of additional disclosures were made. More than
sixty interviews conducted by the RCMP and Social Services
over the next few days revealed the stunning magnitude of
the case. The local school board immediately suspended the
suspect from his teaching responsibilities and parents quickly
became involved to assure the protection and treatment of
the affected children.
A wide
range of abuse was disclosed during the interviews. The abuser
engaged in abusive activities which encompassed both patterns
of abuse listed above. He was an opportunist, taking advantage
of situations already given, or carefully engineering ones
that allowed him the opportunity to perpetrate abuses undetected.
A list of his abusive behaviours was compiled following the
disclosures and included the following:
- direct
mutual genital fondling and masturbation,
- forcing
the children to lie down with him and in a few cases including
the removal of clothing,
- forcing
the children to be sexual with each other in front of him,
- forcing
the children to sit on his lap and rubbing against them,
- inappropriate
sexualized language,
- directing
children to act suggestively during school dance performances.
He promised
monetary rewards, or participation in sports teams, good grades,
and other special privileges in return for sexual favours.
Tension among the children developed as a result of the special
attention and favouritism. A few of the abused children did
talk about their experiences with him to other children, prompting
some uncomfortable rumours in the school.
Disclosure
In many
instances of multiple victim child sexual abuse, prior to
any true disclosures, some children will try to tell friends
or family members about the abuse. When the object of a disclosure
is another child, the results can be frustrating for the victim
of abuse. Frequently these disclosures amount to dead-end
disclosures because the child being told of the abuse has
a) been sworn to secrecy, b) does not have the capacity to
understand the severity of what he or she is being told, or
c) may ridicule the victim, leading to social ostracism. The
victims may find themselves further victimized by their peers
who may consider them as "weird," "queer,"
or "dirty."31 The victim may withdraw
from social relations and become a loner, or retract the disclosure
and deny its validity. This experience is especially difficult
for adolescent males who tend to fear that if they report
the sexual abuse, they may be taunted, ridiculed and rejected
by their peers. Some boys even feel that they are somehow
to blame for the abuse and assume that they must be homosexual
if a man wanted sexual liaisons with them.
Some parents
may recall behavioural changes in their children, but most
likely would not have recognized it as an indication of abuse.
Some children try to tell their parents about the abuse, but
the offender's good standing in the community, combined with
a child's inability to articulate the specifics of sexual
abuse, leads many parents to misinterpret signs and symptoms
of abuse. A child's reluctance to be alone with an abuser,
or blatant and apparently unjustified disobedience can be
easily misunderstood by an unsuspecting and trusting parent.
When disclosures
are finally made, sometimes after many years of suppression
and misery, it can be quite traumatic for both the children
and their parents. They may feel intimidated and powerless
vis-à-vis the abuser because he is typically considered to
be such a trustworthy and respected citizen. The victims and
their families may feel threatened with retaliation by the
offender, especially if there is a great power imbalance between
them (socio-economically). The victims themselves may fear
negative reactions from their own family members and friends.
Many victims are afraid that they are somehow at fault for
what happened to them, in a classic "blame the victim"
kind of way. Some victims in the sample community were confused
when they were told that what they had been doing was wrong,
yet it was not their fault. They were obeying a respected
and trusted authority figure, something which they had been
taught to do. Victims in other occurrences have even defended
the activities they were asked to participate in, saying they
did not find them distasteful.
At the
time of disclosure, a child's feelings of vulnerability increase
dramatically. Many children end up feeling ambivalent about
disclosing due to the negative response they perceive from
the recipient. They may even feel responsible for the upheaval
which ensues, and feel guilty about the content of the disclosure.32
Unfortunate
consequences of...long periods of denial and community tension
were the prolonged pain and stress (re-victimization) experienced
by children who had been abused and who did not receive
family/community support, and/or were criticized or belittled
for revealing what happened to them. Some victims experienced
rejection by peers and/or members of their own families.
A NOTE
ABOUT YOUNG CHILDREN AND CHILDREN WITH DISABILITIES
Special
attention must be given to the problems vis-à-vis attempted
disclosures by very young children or children with significant
physical or mental handicaps due to their particular communication
abilities. These situations demand that services accommodate
the greater challenge of ensuring the safety of children
by providing appropriately trained professionals to interact
with the children in a way that facilitates their abilities
to express themselves. Very young children do not have clearly
defined boundaries between themselves and others. Furthermore,
their vocabulary may be limited and may not include concepts
of abuse, how to express fear and other feelings, or words
to describe body parts. This is not the medium to examine
the particular challenges of addressing abuse issues for
such children, however it is necessary to indicate the need
for specific study in this area.
Community
Response
There
is a high incidence of denial at the community level to disclosures
of multiple victim child sexual abuse perpetrated by an up-standing
community member. Residents reported resistance to accepting
the validity of the disclosures, and in some cases tried to
minimize their significance in up to 80% of occurrences studied
in the 1991 B.C. Ministry of Health Report. Once the abuse
is recognized, over-reporting of further suspicious activities
is not uncommon. Generally, most of the reports turn out to
be false, the result of hypervigilance and increased suspicion.
The general findings concerning the effects of MVCSA on communities
as a whole are congruent with the findings in the sample community.
Communities as a whole experience the effects of abuse, and
may manifest symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
According
to DSM-III-R (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, 3rd Revision),
PTSD occurs when a person, and in this case, an entire community,
has experienced an event that is outside the range of usual
human experience. The event is persistently re-experienced
in a variety of ways including recurrent and intrusive recollections
of the event and intense psychological distress at exposure
to events that symbolize or resemble an aspect of the traumatic
event. There is a persistent avoidance of stimuli associated
with the trauma or numbing of general responsiveness as indicated
by at least one of the following: efforts to avoid thoughts
or feelings associated with the trauma; efforts to avoid activities
or situations that arouse recollections of the trauma; inability
to recall an important aspect of the trauma; markedly diminished
interest in significant activities; feelings of detachment
or estrangement from others; restricted range of affect; and
a sense of foreshortened future. Finally, hypervigilance is
not uncommon following a stressful event.
The time
that a small community can take to recover from the trauma
of sexual abuse leads the authors to believe that a significant
amount of stress is experienced by not only the victims, but
the entire community. The high level of mistrust and anxiety
that permeates a community suggests that the healing process
is prolonged beyond what would be anticipated by non-direct
victims.
In our
sample community parents of victims were affected both as
community members and as parents of specifically abused children.
We heard about feelings of powerlessness, betrayal and stigmatization.
On a broad level, we were looking for qualitative information
on community impact. We found that all parents, regardless
of the victim status of their children, felt high levels of
stress, supporting the hypothesis that the abuse impacted
on the community as a whole.
Heeding
the desires of the community, we refrained from asking children
any questions directly pertaining to sexual abuse. Parents
and community members poignantly expressed their feelings
of exposure and stigmatization and did not wish to subject
the children to the possibility of feeling re-stigmatized
by their participation in the project. During the course of
the project several new occurrences of abuse came to light
in the community and environs. We recognized that it would
be difficult to claim that the observed effects are due solely
to the abuse perpetrated by the one individual responsible
for the original incident under study. Furthermore, it complicated
the mending of trust that was only slowly taking place as
the community learned to understand what effect sexual abuse
has on everyone in a small rural locale.
Short
and long-term effects on the children
In order
to gain some perspective on the impact of sexual abuse on
child victims, we administered a series of questionnaires
to children in both the sample community and a comparison
community. The results highlight the effects on the known
victims and the other children in the community, however,
they do not provide conclusive findings about the specific
effects of this one instance of abuse on the community's children.
Previous family histories in addition to subsequent occurrences
of abuse in the community limited our ability to draw clear
conclusions about the impact of a single perpetrator. While
the statistical and methodological limitations of this study
must be acknowledged, we also felt it important share our
observations. Consequently, we decided to look for broad patterns
of social and psychological functioning of the victims following
a known instance of sexual abuse.
The questionnaires
were administered three years after the abuse was disclosed.
The findings are generalized measures of social and psychological
functioning of the victims of abuse, as well as all the children
in the community. We looked at categories such as locus
of control, industry, fears, disturbance and emotional
and behavioural changes, across age and gender. The results
indicate that the abuse affected all children in the community,
albeit differentially according to their victim status. Boys
exhibited more problems than girls, likely because the majority
of victims were male. We also found that the older children
showed more residual effects of the abuse three years later,
suggesting that age may be a significant factor in the healing
process following childhood sexual abuse.
Age seemed
to be a large factor in determining the effect of the abuse
on industry measures, and particularly school performance,
although all children from the sample community, demonstrated
lower industry scores than the comparison sample. When grades
are examined for the two years preceding the disclosures and
the 3 years following, we found that the younger children
were performing better following the disclosures while the
older children were faring worse. These findings were particularly
striking for the boys who were direct victims of abuse. This
seems to confirm that the impact of abuse was greater for
the older children at the time of occurrence.
The victims
of abuse were clearly affected by the breach of trust by an
authority figure. Many children showed a general distrust
of adults and a handful of children had problems with teachers
whose behaviour or appearance reminded them of the abuser.
The children were very selective with their relationships,
slow to trust others and exhibited extreme caution when meeting
new people. There was a tendency to let people reach out to
them, leaving the option of acceptance or rejection to their
own judgment. Presumably, this effort results in reduced vulnerability,
and a greater feeling of control for the children. The younger
boys exhibited high levels of internal control, while the
older boys tended to rely more heavily on external control.
The children
from the sample community showed less fear than expected,
which suggests that there was a tendency towards compensation
for feelings of vulnerability. Although they were not fearful
of failure and criticism, there was an understandably inflated
fear of personal harm. Consistent with other clinical studies
on fear levels and gender, girls exhibited higher levels of
fear than the boys. Boys may also have had a greater need
to compensate for their feelings of vulnerability, because
they represented the majority of victims.
An interesting
aspect of our study entailed asking the children to draw a
picture of a person. We were looking for indications of "disturbance"
as evaluated by a special scoring system developed specifically
for this study. According to this scoring system, a majority
of the drawings from the sample community were classified
as clearly disturbed. The "clearly disturbed" rating
included: undue sexual emphasis, anxiety, social inappropriateness,
aggressiveness and defensiveness. Again gender was significant
in that boys showed more indications of disturbance in their
drawings than did the girls. Although this is in keeping with
a general finding amongst school age children, it is also
notable because again, boys represented the majority of the
victims of sexual abuse in the sample community.
Proportionally,
twice as many children from the sample community had incomplete
drawings as compared with the comparison community, and there
were many more incomplete drawing for the high school children
than for the younger ones. We also noted higher levels of
disturbance in the drawings of the older children. The combination
of the evidence from the drawing exercise and the academic
records seems to confirms that the impact of abuse was greater
for the older children at the time of occurrence.
At home,
emotional and behavioural changes were noted by the children's
parents. School performance records, in addition to RCMP and
social service records were examined. There was little evidence
of abnormal criminal activity during the time of the abuse,
and any behavioural problems had been interpreted by social
services as related to a long history of family dysfunction.
Parents, however, described a few school related behavioural
changes, such as refusal to attend, poor performance and withdrawal
from extracurricular activities, namely sports. The children
also exhibited behaviours such as worrying, arguing, fighting,
fearfulness, unhappiness, feelings of worthlessness, poor
ability to concentrate and difficulty sleeping.
Following
disclosure, behaviours became much more clear. Directly abused
children were confused, angered and guilt-ridden about their
interactions with the abuser. He was someone whom they had
trusted, so they obeyed his requests. The confusion and anger
was not isolated to the direct victims, however. Other children
in the community had a hard time grasping the idea of sexual
abuse, and some were quite fond of the abuser, or had yearned
for his attentions. Some children felt intense emotional conflict
over the arrest of the abuser, because for many of them, he
had provided an emotional attachment they craved, and which
made them feel important. To complicate matters, the abused
children became the butt of cruel jokes by children from the
other school, who taunted and teased the victims mercilessly.
The children
generally felt a sense of relief however, once the disclosures
became public. The secrets they had been carrying around were
finally revealed, and they no longer had to feel uncomfortable
at school because of the abuser, although a few feared that
the abuser might come back and harm them. Other children felt
relief because they knew that that something had been terribly
wrong with the relationship between the abuser and their friends.
Short
and long term effects on the families
The initial
reactions of the parents to the charges were disbelief and
shock, followed closely by anger. Parents of direct victims
felt betrayed by the pretense of the friendly relationship
they had had with the abuser. They were angry with the school
system which they felt had failed in their obligation to protect
the children in their care. This feeling was fueled by the
revelation that the abuser had been hired as a teacher even
though he had a previous history of abuse in other school
districts. Parents were also displeased with the way the school
board handled the situation after the disclosures, displaying
no coherent course of action and little or no direction for
the teachers who were responsible for the children.
Many parents
felt guilty that they remained unaware of the abuse even after
observing some suspicious events. Parents felt like they had
failed their children twice: first, for their inability to
protect their children from the abuse, and second, because
their children had either not chosen to or been able to, confide
in them.
At the
time of this study, parents felt their children were generally
doing well. They did worry every time a change in the child
took place, wondering whether they were observing a change
due normal development or an effect of the abuse.
They remained concerned about the short-term and long-term
effects of the abuse.
The abuse
disclosures ultimately sensitized the whole issue of abuse,
to the extent that touching other children in any way became
a source of anxiety and led to the fear that one would be
suspected of abuse. On the other side of the coin, parents
noted increased awareness and education in the community surrounding
the issue of sexual abuse, allowing some topics to become
commonplace rather than taboo. With this newfound openness,
it was anticipated that the communitys children would
be more able to recognize and disclose abuse in the future
compared with children from other communities.
Coping
strategies used by the parents of direct victims included
support from a variety of sources such as family, friends,
and services. Almost all directly affected families participated
in some type of counselling. Information on sexual abuse was
acquired through meetings, workshops, and counselling. People
made use of different coping mechanisms. Some parents became
active in organizing support groups, demanding services, and
volunteering, while others withdrew from these activities,
retreating into themselves or moving away.
Short
and long term effects on the community
Some common
threads characterized the responses of community members to
the disclosures of abuse including initial feelings of shock,
disbelief, and anger, and soon followed by a sense of betrayal
and vulnerability. There was a dramatic increase in tension
in the community arising out of misinformation, differences
in coping styles, and different priorities in terms of what
steps needed to be taken.
Conflicts
between individual community members, between parents and
the school, and among parents of different children characterized
the post disclosure period. One main conflict centered around
the role of the media, including the arrival of reporters
from out of town. Some parents took advantage of the media
coverage hoping to use the media attention to demand services
and compensation. A number of parents of both victims and
non-victims preferred to keep things quiet and maintain privacy.
They began to feel that the whole community was becoming unnecessarily
stigmatized with the media attention. Media aside, the size,
and therefore intimacy, of the community was already compromising
both privacy and confidentiality.
While
the parents of directly affected children wished to remain
anonymous; other parents wanted to know who had been abused
in order to protect their own children from possible harmful
influences. Some parents tried to guess who had been abused
by watching the activities around the social work office and
by closely monitoring the children's behaviour. Community
professionals observed how mistrust, rumours, and partial
information brought some parents and some community members
to regard each other with suspicion.
Other
conflicts centered around differences in attitude toward the
abuser and the victims. Some parents took issue with a minister
of a local church who seemed to be placing onus of responsibility
for the abuse on the victims. He was later charged with child
sexual abuse himself. Another source of conflict was the relationship
with the abuser himself. Some parents were initially supportive
of the abuser, while others were immediately against him.
One father forced his children to retract their disclosures
and then started a door to door campaign to support the abuser.
Community members who defended the abuser thought that the
children were making things up or that the children were themselves
the seducers.
Service
response and evaluation of services
Service
Response
The first
action came from the local interagency group which immediately
formed a response team, organizing an information workshop
for parents and teachers. The workshop was given by a sexual
abuse counsellor from Vancouver and took place one week after
the first disclosures. Financing for the event was not arranged
until a few weeks later when the school board decided to provide
the necessary funds. The meetings proved to have limited usefulness
for the parents beyond the first meeting which followed closely
on the heels of the disclosures and provided much needed information
for coping with the immediate effects. Parents also took the
opportunity to address their feelings of guilt and anxiety
around what had happened and what the future held.
Two weeks
after the disclosures, two counsellors were hired from a nearby
urban centre. Their mandate was to assess the situation, to
deal with the immediate crisis in the school, and to meet
the affected children and families. Initial funding was arranged
by the parent's group, but they were later hired by the Ministry
of Social Services and Housing for a total of four months.
Some people decided to access counselling services outside
of the community and felt that the results were generally
good.
The Ministry
of Health provided a mental health team which arrived in town
two months after the disclosures and stayed for a total of
three months. During this period, the team saw individual
children and families, facilitated support groups, and conducted
workshops on sexual abuse for local professionals. Not many
parents felt that the services offered by the Mental Health
team would be useful for themselves, but some did avail their
children to the service. As well, a permanent mental health
position, the need for which had been previously established,
was created at this time, with the new worker arriving three
months after the disclosures. This position had broad responsibilities
for a large geographical area.
The Ministry
of Education funded an elementary school counsellor position
for a year after the abuse. The position was extended for
an additional year and there had been some initiative to make
this position permanent. This ministry also financed some
informational workshops and the coordinator position for a
community awareness program. An effort to increase prevention
was made by means of school programs such as "CARE"
and "Feeling Yes Feeling No," programs designed
to inform and alert children to inappropriate behaviour from
others to prevent sexual and other abuse.
Evaluation
Evaluation
of the various community and government services by parents
and professionals was mixed. By the time the mental health
team arrived, many problematic patterns and conflicts had
already been established and many parents and children were
not very receptive to treatment. Under-use of this service
was attributed by respondents to the fact that the mental
health team did not reside in town and came only two days
per week. They were seen as "outsiders" and were
not trusted by many community people. Because the regional
Ministry of Health office had initially refused to get involved
and send help to the community, community members were embittered,
and therefore unwilling to make use of this resource when
it became available.
Other
problems with service use were directly related to the magnitude
of the initial crisis. Professionals connected with the local
Social Services office described the initial disclosure situation
as chaotic. The large number of interviews that needed to
be conducted with children took priority over regular office
duties and programs which were put on hold for a month. Social
Services was used by professionals and members of the community
as their principal source of information about the case and
for guidelines for action, increasing the load on this office.
Both parents and professionals talked about how existing services
were taxed to the limit. To complicate matters, some of the
professionals involved in providing service were also parents
of victims. Confusion and lack of guidelines frustrated the
initial response.
Funding
was a significant problem. The first counsellors and consultants
who came to town did so without a firm promise of remuneration.
An emergency fund was eventually established through donations
and a grant from a community organization. This uncertainty
angered many parents who thought immediate help from the ministries
was necessary. Several projects were dropped due to a lack
of funding, including some local volunteer organizations which
would have been able to help with the victims.
Some parents
expressed dissatisfaction with the level of expertise provided
by the professionals who came to help. As an extreme example,
one parent noted that she found herself providing emotional
support for a counsellor who was overwhelmed with the magnitude
of the problem, a position this parent resented since she
had expected to be the recipient of support herself. Other
parents simply did not trust the professionals level of knowledge,
feeling that these individuals were expecting unrealistically
"quick" results for their efforts. In many cases,
parents expected help to come to them, rather than needing
to seek it out. This was because they did not want to be seen
going to mental health services or counselling and being "stigmatized".
Professionals, in their view, should have been prepared to
deal with these types of responses and should have reached
out to them more.
Professionals
felt that parents were initially very open to receiving help.
They came to the first community meeting with high expectations
of rescue and were disappointed when they found no clear answers.
The disappointment increased as further help was slow to come.
Professional
opinions varied widely on the needs of parents (and victims)
following the abuse. Some professionals thought that many
of the parents were still dealing with emotional sequelae
up to two years following the disclosures. Other professionals
thought that the problems found in the local families were
related more to problems arising from a variety of factors
including a depressed economic situation in the area, high
unemployment, alcoholism, and drug abuse. Some professionals
also believed that the sexual abuse resulted in a multitude
of chronic problems for local children. In contrast, other
professionals interacting directly with the children, such
as school counsellors, teachers and mental health professionals,
thought that the observed problems were no different from
those observed in similar small communities without a history
of abuse.
Existing
services were considered by all parties involved as overloaded
and insufficient. One mental health worker had a client waiting
list of several months long, able to attend only to crisis
situations to the neglect of more chronic problems. People
requiring more attention were referred to private therapists
in a nearby city, which was well beyond the means of many
local families. At the time of data collection there was no
psychiatrist, no alcohol and drug counsellor, no family therapist,
no sex-abuse therapist, and no psychologist in the community.
Some prevention services sponsored by Social Services and
probation had been cut back. The school counsellors were overburdened
as cut backs in the schools led to a decrease in the time
available for counselling.
Requests
were made for long-term psychotherapy, assessment and monitoring
of affected children and counselling for the parents. Other
suggestions included a teen centre geared towards providing
constructive activities in addition to information and counselling
in a number of areas, including drug and alcohol counselling.
The need for continuous education on the issue of sexual abuse
both at the community and school levels was also mentioned.
Professionals
ranked a family therapist and a drug and alcohol counsellor
as the most important services needed. Community professionals
also identified the need for a full time permanent therapist
in town with expertise in sexual abuse cases. In addition,
an increase in school extra-curricular programs and in community
recreational activities for children, and provision of parenting
workshops were seen as important in preventing further problems.
Professionals noted that subsequent to the abuse, more people
were volunteering their help and that the strength and persistence
of some of the parents created a powerful drive to increase
services and to educate the community about sexual abuse.
The need
for more financial support for local programs was noted. The
initial response team has develop into a permanent "abuse
team," incorporating representatives from Social Services,
Mental Health, School Board, Hospital, E. Fry Society, RCMP,
probation, and school counsellors. Its goal is early detection
of neglect, physical and sexual abuse of children in order
to prevent further abuse. The abuse team is limited in its
ability to act since it receives no funding, has no enforcing
power, and its actions are limited to the ability of the existing
services to deal with more cases.
Conclusions
and recommendations
Small
rural communities have a special vulnerability in cases of
multiple victim non-familial child sexual abuse. When hiring
professionals from outside of the community, choices are often
seriously restricted by the number of people who are willing
to relocate to a small town. As a result, the screening process
for those who are willing, must take into consideration the
potential for the type of betrayal and breach of trust examined
in this book.
Limited
human and fiscal resources force service providers to offer
minimal services when more comprehensive ones are desperately
needed. The structure of small communities often has people
wearing many different hats, and thus can put them into positions
of conflict of interest during a crisis. Service providers
may themselves be in need of help, but there are no resources
available to them, because they themselves are the sole providers
of such services.
The impact
of a crisis such as child sexual abuse extends beyond the
actual victims to affect the entire community. It becomes
difficult, if not impossible, to distinguish between children
victimized by the abuse and those who may have remained
unscathed. This book showed that all children are affected,
albeit to varying degrees, by the abnormally sexualized atmosphere
prompted by the behaviours of the abuser. Furthermore, the
attention given such an occurrence by the mass media stigmatizes
the community as a whole. Community members may feel that
they are somehow being blamed as a result of the negative
attention.
Two general
conclusions can be drawn as a result of our look at the sample
community and additional resources on the subject. Better
education for both children and parents is a solid recommendation
found in the sexual abuse prevention literature. Such education
must however, be tailored to the particular needs of the community,
such as a rural locale. Children need to be explicitly taught
the parameters of acceptable behaviour from adults. Parents
need to be taught to recognize symptomatic behaviour and then
given information on who to go to and how to react.
Family
problems need to be acknowledged and addressed before they
reach crisis levels. The literature shows that children who
witness violence in their own families are particularly vulnerable.
Services must be extended to allow for the long-term counselling
and resource management necessary to keep families healthy.
By doing so, the vulnerability of children will be hopefully
be reduced through stronger parent/child communication and
more stable family support systems.
The special
concerns of rural communities need to be incorporated into
the management of local health resources. The lack of service
provision in the sample community had already reached crisis
levels by the time the first disclosures were made. Several
more perpetrators were identified in the ensuing years, which
worked to prevent healing. The community was under siege and
without the means to begin the path to effective healing.
The following
specific recommendations are based on interviews with community
members, professionals, parents and our own observations.
Included are both prevention and response recommendations.
A)
Immediacy of Response
Immediate
emergency action including emergency funds for hiring additional
help is crucial to successful intervention. The need for information,
support, and direction is paramount at this initial stage.
This need is felt at a number of levels, for affected children
and their families, for the local professionals who will be
working with them, and for other community members who also
require accurate information and support.
B)
Locally Based Resources
Another
set of recommendations is related to the issue of trust. It
was stressed that professionals known and respected by the
community be the ones to offer the necessary services. These
service providers would not necessarily need to be local residents
of the community but be familiar with the area or reside at
a reasonable distance from it. In addition, continuity is
considered an important factor. Rather than having many different
professionals entering and leaving town, it would be beneficial
to have the same staff available for as long as it is considered
necessary. The training of local residents and extra support
for the groups and services already in town is seen as a key
factor in the success of intervention efforts. In the current
community, some of this training is already taking place.
For example, there is a six month course on sexual abuse issues
in a nearby larger community which has been attended by several
teachers and counsellors.
C)
Clear Guidelines and Lines of Responsibility
Clear
guidelines and jurisdictional responsibility need to be established
for all the agencies involved. Every community should have
clear guidelines for emergency response to such situations
and have immediate access to both services and funding. It
is crucial to recognize that not only the direct victims in
a multiple abuse case, but also the community as a whole need
to be served. In addition, local professionals and service
providers may also need help and support from other professionals
in order to deal with the impact of the case on their own
lives as community members and as service providers.
D)
Small towns are not big cities
It is
important to be aware of the importance of small town dynamics
and sensitivity to local issues by new service providers.
The community's perceived needs and concerns need to be heard
and addressed in the context of awareness of local interrelationships
and dynamics. The small size of such communities and the consequent
concerns about privacy, confidentiality, dual roles and relationships,
all need to be borne in mind. It may be possible, for example,
to provide some initial services in the parents' homes rather
than in ministerial offices, to bypass reluctance to use services
based on fear of being observed and further stigmatized by
others.
E)
Long-Term Service Provision and Follow-up
Evaluation
and follow-up of the victim's coping is needed at different
periods during and after the termination of interventions.
Services need to be long-term, tied not to an externally imposed
time frame of how long they should be needed, but to how long
they are needed by victims and community members. The previous
government report (B.C. Ministry of Health, 1991) suggests
the evaluation of services. We would like to emphasize here
the importance that such evaluation be formalized so that
the actual effectiveness of interventions can be determined
and not only on a one-time basis.
F)
School-Based Programs
Programs
which address self-esteem, communication skills and discussion
of important issues in the schools can be useful in helping
victims to cope and receive support and clarification and
discussion can help to avoid stigmatization. School-based
programs focused on development of self-esteem are important.
In addition school-based prevention programs would be an important
component of the curriculum in all communities, rural communities
in particular.
G)
Recruitment Efforts to Small Communities
The difficulty
in filling needed positions was mentioned frequently during
this study, seen as resulting from low interest of highly
skilled professionals to move to small communities. Recruitment
efforts need to be improved in their scope and thoroughness
and the challenge of such positions stressed.
Endnotes
1. Finkelhor,
Hotaling, Lewis, & Smith, 1990.
2. Finkelhor,
1984; Van Scoyk, Gray & Jones, 1988.
3. Glancy
& Regher, 1991.
4. Briere,
Evans, Runtz & Wall, 1988; Freeman-Longo, 1986; Freidrich,
Beilke & Urquizaa, 1988; Pierce & Pierce, 1985; Reinhart,
1987.
5. Vander-mey,
1988; Cavaiola & Schiff, 1988.
6. Conte
& Schuerman, 1987; Mannarino & Cohen, 1986; Adams-Tucker,
1982; Browning & Boatman, 1977; Justice & Justice,
1979.
7. Conte
& Schuerman, 1987; Gomes-Schwartz, Horowitz & Sauzier,
1985; Adams-Tucker, 1982; Browning & Boatman, 1977; Gelinas,
1983; Justice & Justice, 1979.
8. Browning
& Boatman, 1977; Justice & Justice, 1979; Alter-Reid,
Gibbs, Lachenmeyer, Sigal & Massoth, 1986; Cavaiola &
Schiff, 1988.
9. Adams-Tucker,
1982; Conte & Schuerman, 1987; Justice & Justice,
1979; Tong, Oates & McDowell, 1987.
10. Browning
& Boatman, 1977; Adams-Tucker, 1982; Browne & Finkelhor,
1986b.
11. Beitchman,
Zucker, Hood, daCosta & Akman, 1991.
12. Deblinger,
McLeer, Atkins, Ralphe & Foa, 1989; Einbender & Friedrich,
1989, Friedrich & Luecke, 1988; Goldston, Turnquist &
Knutson, 1989; Kolko, Moser & Weldy, 1988.
13. Fagot,
Hagan, Youngblade & Potter, 1989.
14. Tong,
Oates & McDowell, 1987
15. Gomes-Schwartz,
Horwitz & Sauzier, 1985; Sansonnet-Hayden, Haley, Marriage
& Fine, 1987.
16. Mannarino
& Cohen, 1988; Einbender & Friedrich, 1989, Tong,
Oates & McDowell, 1987.
17. Waterman
& Lusk, 1993.
18. Mannarino
& Cohen, 1988; Goldston, Turnquist & Knutson, 1989;
Kolko, Moser & Weldy, 1988.
19. Finkelhor,
1984; Regehr, 1990; Van Scoyk, Gray & Jone, 1988.
20. Glancy
& Regehr, 1991.
21. BC
Ministry of Health, 1991.
22. BC
Ministry of Health, 1991.
23. The
Gove Report, Vol.2, p.26.
24. BC
Ministry of Health, 1991.
25. Conte
& Schuerman, 1991.
26. We
say "he" because the majority of multiple victim
sexual abusers are men. BC Ministry of Health, 1991; Dezwirek,
1993.
27. The
abuser could hold such positions as teacher, health care worker,
clergy, leader of boys and girls activities, baby sitter,
music teacher, etc.
28. According
to DSM III R, a pedophile is someone who has had "recurrent
sexual urges and sexually arousing fantasies involving sexual
activity with a prepubescent child or chldren; the person
has acted on these urges, or is markedly distressed by them;
and the person is at least 16 years old and at least 5 years
older than the child or children" involved.
29. Vancouver
Sun, April 4, 1986.
30. BC
Ministry of Health, 1991.
31. BC
Ministry of Health, 1991.
32. Sas
& Cunningham, 1995.
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