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Long Term Effects of Trauma: Implications for Practitioners
Annette McCullough, MSW RSW
Twelve years of work with older women who have survived
abuse has taught me that the long term after-effects of having
experienced trauma/abuse are profound and largely invisible
to practitioners who do not understand survivors' realities.
It is absolutely essential that practitioners working with
abuse issues understand how survivors, for the most part,
are silenced in many different ways by denial - denial by
the self, denial by the perpetrators, denial by families,
denial by friends, and denial by society at large. Each time
a survivor's reality is denied, another barrier to healing
is erected.
The result for many women over the course of a lifetime
is a multi-layered wall for secrecy and shame accompanied
by maintenance of an "acceptable face" for the outside world.
Practitioners are often not aware that survivors at the time
of first meeting (consciously or unconsciously) begin to ascertain
whether or not the individual they are involved with is likely
to be sensitive to survivor issues and comfortable in talking
about abuse and emotionally charged experiences. When sensitivity
and comfort are evident, disclosures follow (starting very
slowly, with relatively 'safe' matters - the "tip of the iceberg"
so to speak). When sensitivity and comfort are absent, there
is silence, or more likely, discussions which reinforce an
"acceptable" public image.
The more I work with women in mid-life and beyond, both
in individual counselling and in some small groups, the more
I am coming to believe that problems which are so commonly
associated with aging are in actual fact problems related
to unresolved trauma. Included here are depression, insomnia,
loneliness, anxiety, panic attacks, phobias, paranoia, confusion,
psychomatic complaints, alcohol and substance abuse, low self
esteem, and the broad range of physical health problems which
are related to stress. I say this because the more I learn
about survivorship and trauma, from older women, from colleagues
who work exclusively with adult survivors of abuse, and from
my own professional experience, the clearer it becomes to
me that practitioners cannot accompany clients to places in
the mind and psyche which they themselves are not prepared
to go.
What this means to practitioners working with older adults
is that very specific on-going training, skill building and
support is required, in closed group settings, in order to
develop the necessary skills to work with older adults and
abuse issues, and to clarify the personal issues which are
invariably triggered when working with abuse.
Essentials of the training are the family and social contexts
in which abuse takes place, the nature of trauma, the processes
of denial, the storage, repression, triggering, retrieval,
and processing of traumatic memory and the ongoing consultation
and development of practical skills in working with older
adult survivors of abuse. Practitioner self care and group
support are essential to the training and too often is the
last to be considered, if considered at all.
Annette McCullough, MSW RSW
Third Age Counselling & Consulting Associates Inc.
400, 119 - 14th Street N.W.
Calgary, Alberta T2N 1Z6
Ph: (403) 283-6112 Fx: (403) 244-4701
Annette McCullough is a private practitioner in Calgary
who specializes in age related issues. Much of her work is
with older women survivors of abuse.
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