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Encouragement in Education, Pride in Heritage

First Nations Programs Reach Disillusioned Students at the Native Education Centre

I can remember a time when I was ashamed to tell people I was an Indian. My family had lost many cultural traditions over the years, including our language, because of the shame of identifying ourselves as Aboriginal people. I grew up integrated into the public school system, struggling to fit in. Struggling with my identity as one of the few, if not the only Native kid in class. In Grade One my elementary school principal pulled me out of class into the hall and asked me which band I was from. I had no clue what he meant. I didn't play any instruments. He was looking for team names in intramural sports. That was about as much as my elementary school taught me about Indians.

I remember a time when in high school my curiosity of being an Indian and what that meant led me to the school library, which was a place I did not visit often. I wanted to know more about my people, the Tshimshian. What I found was devastating; the book portrayed us as savage people who ate human flesh. We were cannibals. Needless to say, I never returned to the library unless absolutely necessary.

In my teens I can remember being in a situation where people would wonder what my background was because of my dark skin. "I'm Indian... But I'm a good Indian" I would explain, feeling the need to set myself apart from the stereotypes of what an Indian was. This was not that long ago. I barely graduated from high school in 1988. The same public school system that forced assimilation onto my mother and denied her the right to be proud of her culture, was now continuing the cycle with me. I had no intention of furthering my education. I felt I wasn't smart enough. After all the humiliation and struggles I endured, that I was always left to deal with alone at whatever age, I wasn't left with much determination or inspiration to do anything.

A lack of support for cross-cultural programs at every level (social, political, personal), along with misrepresentation and ignorance serves to preserve the sterotypes of First Nations people.

Today I am proud of my identity. I am proud of who I am. I am proud of what I do and I am confident that I can do whatever I want. I owe this to the experience I had at the Native Education Centre (NEC) and my instructors of the Family and Community Counselling Program where I graduated. The experience I had at NEC was extremely empowering. I had the opportunity to grow and learn in an environment that was safe and extremely encouraging and supportive of my cultural and individual identity. All of the students in my class were treated as equals. Our instructors felt they had as much to learn from us as we did from them. The work we did was continuously encouraged and supported. In addition to this, we had the opportunity to learn more about our culture. This was an atmosphere I was unfamiliar with compared to the regular public school system.

Currently, several public institutions and social services have made accommodations in order to become more multiculturally aware, specifically to Aboriginal people. Many public schools have recently introduced First Nations Studies courses as elective courses for students. The Ministry of Social Services is beginning to recognize the damaging effects of apprehending Aboriginal children to be placed in non-native homes and are working toward having these children remain within the Native community. These are only two examples of the changes which are taking place within our community to strengthen the awareness of the unique experience of aboriginal people within it.

However, aboriginal people are still over-represented in areas such as suicide and death rates, substance abuse rates, poverty statistics and family violence rates. A lack of support for cross-cultural programs at every level (social, political, personal), along with misrepresentation and ignorance serves to preserve the stereotypes of First Nations people. European contact still has many strong negative effects on our people. Residential schools had severe consequences for those who attended and for several generations that followed. The introduction of the Department of Indian Affairs continued to promote the racism and discrimination of Native people by using their own fabricated standards to determine who could and could not identify themselves as "Indian".

Past injustices still affect our lives today. Native and non-native. We must continue to provide our strong multicultural communities with opportunities to become more aware of issues pertaining to all our people throughout Canada in order for peaceful resolution in our struggle for equality. It is of great importance that these opportunities be made available socially, politically and personally. But of even greater importance is that we as individuals become responsible and willing to acknowledge and respect the myriad of diverse cultural backgrounds within our communities, our provinces and our country. Or course we have a choice. We can continue to play a submissive and passive role in this capitalist patriarchal society until we completely self-destruct, or we can face the challenge of learning to live together peacefully so that eventually we can live unified and harmonious lives.

We are continuously surrounded by social inequality. Programs such as Family and Community Counselling at the Native Education Centre offer a unique opportunity to First Nations people to learn in an environment that encourages not only their cultural identity but their individuality as well. This kind of experience inspires individuals to grow to their fullest potential, and to strengthen their self-esteem and self-confidence, which are extremely vulnerable in today's society.

In order to rebuild healthy communities we need to have more programs such as the Family and Community Counselling program to provide students with a safe and secure environment in which to learn. If we want to promote continuing education, we need to encourage and support our future students, rather then humiliate and discourage them.

As a community we also need to support the emergence of other new empowering and positive programs that encourage individual identity. The standards and norms currently set up in our education system suffocate students at every level. Those who do not conform to their rigid rules are devalued and denied the same privileges as those with education.

Cross-cultural issues within the education system are important. Recognizing the uniqueness of each individual student and then honoring and respecting that individuality is just as important. If we want to decrease family violence, suicide, homicide, and poverty rates, we must as individuals and as community members take an active role in supporting and advocating individual rights and freedom within the school system, along with all other social institutions and organizations.

I quiver at the thought of the cycles of abuse and violence I was destined to continue had the doors of the Native Education Centre not been open to me.

For more information on the Native Education Centre and the courses offered there, please contact the school directly at 873-3761 or toll-free at 1-800-667-3230

Arlene Roper, Family Violence Resource Specialist
Native Education Centre
285 East 5th Avenue
Vancouver, B.C. V5T 1H2