BC Institute Against Family Violence Newsletter
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Vulnerability in Aging
La vulnérabilité et le vieillissement

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rage at close of day; 
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
...Dylan Thomas

By the time we reach a certain age, most of us have come to accept our own death.  However, the image of one's self de-ceasing tends to generate trepidation rather than fear because it is hard to picture or really appreciate an event with which we have no prior personal experience.  Instead, we tend to worry about how we might shuffle off this mortal coil.  It might turn into a seemingly endless series of dreary steps forward and backward rather than a brisk sashay off-stage.  If we become unable to look after ourselves, will we have any ability to influence what happens to us?  There are some losses, such as powerlessness, that seem worse than death.

If we don't die suddenly or can't recover from an illness or trauma quickly, there is a good chance that we will need something called "long term care".People most need this type of support during the last year of life.  That last year can come at any age, but because more people are living longer, it is seniors who are more likely to be the focus of discussion around this need for services.

Health Canada recently funded a project that looked at abuse prevention in long term care.   Residents, family members, volunteers, and staff working in extended care facilities were asked about their experiences and feelings.  What they had to say, and what we do with this information, is important to all of us.  When it is our time, we can "go gentle into that good night", or, perhaps, not so gentle.

There was a great deal of emotion during the project focus groups: residents spoke of grief and loss, family members struggled with grief, loss and guilt, staff and volunteers expressed empathy for the residents and their own fears about ageing. 

People living in facilities spoke of being relieved or resigned to be there, either because they didn't want to be a burden on their families or because they had no one to care for them at home.  But one respondent said: "Any place you have to be feels like a jail".   Some said that choice has a lot to do with the ability to accept, and acceptance is key to making a successful transition to spending the rest of one's life in a facility. 

Mobility and the ability to do some things for oneself are important.  However, though there are very few people admitted into care today who have any degree of mobility, people who can continue to be active outside of the residential facility - treating it more as a home base - tended to feel greater independence and equality with staff.  And greater independence seems to foster healthier relationships. Facility caregivers find it easier to meet residents' needs if they don't have to meet all of them.

There was much talk among staff about the facility being the resident's "home" but, as a volunteer said, "most would really rather be home" if they were given a choice.  They'd probably also like to be healthier, younger, more able in many ways and with people they loved.  So, all of them are struggling with loss - in some cases devastating losses - which ".happen at a time when many of their other resources are depleted".  These losses can be (very roughly) grouped into a few categories:

1)  Control - residents make a transition from a life constructed by personal choices and freedoms to a condition that ranges from loss of choice to complete dependency.  In one facility, residents say that personal decision making is supported and promoted: they can choose from a wide variety of things to do.  In another facility ".everything stops at 4 p.m. and, on Friday, it stops for the weekend". 

People need to know where to turn for help with a complaint and feel confident that their comments will be acted upon.  Some residents alluded to a spiritual component in care provision, stating that it was their belief that the ".values of management are similar to residents." which is a good indication that practice in that particular facility is consistent with its philosophy.  Residents of facilities that have active residents' councils also appear to feel more control over their environment and are more supportive of one another.

2)  Personal privacy, dignity, loss of person(hood) - people commonly said that living in a facility was "dehumanizing".  A lot of this is probably due to the resident's need for care and loss of mobility.  Space is a huge factor.  All the residents who participated in focus groups in extended care facilities were in wheelchairs.  It was exceedingly difficult to get a group together to talk intimately because the physical space is not designed to accommodate wheelchair traffic.  The result is that residents become, and feel like, obstacles.

Protecting personal privacy is very important.  Bathing, dressing and other intimate care need to be conducted respectfully. One staff person indicated that, even though the individual resident may not be aware of a loss of privacy because of cognitive losses or other reasons, there is a cumulative effect on everyone.

Residents and family members emphasized that there "must be leeway for honest mistakes and honest emotions" when people are working with other people.  But residents don't always feel like people, and may instead feel more like "a job to be done".  Family members described residents being wheeled into a room and left facing a wall or a television set turned on without regard to whether the program was appropriate.

Residents said they wanted to be viewed as individuals, capable of change, and possessing "an opportunity to develop to greatest potential", not as a group of people needing care and maintenance.

3)  Physical privacy, quiet places to visit, time and space for quiet reflection, tranquility - limited space means living with people not necessarily of one's choice.  One of the intermediate care residents said of her room, "privacy is very important - it's all you've got".  But then she was mobile, and was able to leave her room to socialize.  Not everyone in intermediate care wanted to be alone in a room, but they did want compatible roommates.  

Only 5% of seniors in B.C. require institutional or residential care.   Many enter facilities from acute care hospitals where they are sometimes referred to as "bed blockers".  Staff of residential facilities are feeling pressure to provide more acute care even though the philosophies and realities of care are very different.  Acute care emphasizes "fixing" and a short turn-around.  Long term care supports people to live with disabilities or illnesses.  Residents of long term care facilities have very different needs from acute care patients.

One person working in a facility said, "Those societal expectations of our roles and responsibilities expand to government and funding and how we're resourced - which is mainly by custodial-type care.  Those are different kinds of resources than what is required to provide independence."  This "widget factory mentality" surfaces in descriptions of facilities as a number of beds rather than the capacity for number of people.

Residents say: "Staff need to be reminded of how important they are to lonely old people" and "who gets you up in the morning is how your day goes - someone comes in with a smile and sets the tone for the day".   But, if funding provides only 2.5 care hours per day, per resident and the majority of people need far more care than that, staff are forced to "borrow (time) from Peter to care for Paul".  There's a good chance that the resident whose mood is most affected by contact with staff is also the one perceived as most likely able to "lend" some of his care time to another resident needing more care time.

One sour, bad tempered staff person can have a considerable effect on residents and other staff.  So the impact of a staff person who doesn't want to be there or doing this work has a significance all out of proportion to their relative numbers.  Saying that "It takes the same amount of time to get someone up, whether or not one smiles when doing it", focus group participants emphasized that the right attitude has to be a prerequisite to working in long-term care facilities.  Staff must want to be there, engaging in this work, and need to secure union cooperation in setting standards in care giving.

Not surprisingly, abuse and neglect in long-term care facilities appears to be a continuation of abuse and neglect in communities.  One person working in a facility said:

"Our control, which stems from the responsibility to look after and protect, allows us to be patronizing, demeaning, disrespectful, ... and gives us permission for not getting to know people.  We sometimes create dependence.  It's difficult to relinquish that control because of our responsibility.  We need to be clear about resident's rights and their freedom to live at risk and involve family members in a discussion about these issues and the need to weigh the risk.  We need to value staff, give them more freedom in their work environment. Meaningful participation and shared decision making so control is shared - that's part of education.  Rights and individuality are what we're striving for".

The impact of violence, abuse and neglect on people living in facilities is very profound.  One man spoke of being disabled and thus completely unable to move as another resident held a pillow over his face, smothering him.   He has now recovered some movement but said he will never forget what it felt like to be totally helpless and dependent on others.  He wanted people to know that his experience is not that uncommon.

We all, to some degree, depend on the people around us to keep us safe and to meet our needs.  The people who are now most in need of care have a right to basic care and support but are least able to demand it.  Increasingly, in our politically charged society, individuals have to form a group and lobby for what they need.  Very frail seniors have no resources or inclination to do this.  Or, if they try, they can not compete with other more vocal and well organized groups.  Many of the oldest people in our society are women who have outlived people whom they cared for and who might have cared for them.  They represent a generation reared to accept responsibility for others, not assert their own rights.  They are too often alone, and too easily made invisible.  What we are able to do for them, we do for ourselves.

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